Recognizing and Avoiding Scam Profiles
Scam profiles follow recognizable patterns: requests for money, rushed declarations of affection, refusal to video call, and pressure to move off the platform quickly. Spotting these early — and reporting them — protects both you and the wider community.
The clearest red flag: any request for money
Any request for money, gift cards, or financial information — especially before you've met in person — is a hard stop. Legitimate connections simply don't ask for this, no matter how convincing the story attached to it sounds.
Other common tactics
Rushing intimacy and declarations of love very quickly, refusing video calls, and pushing to move the conversation off the platform right away are all patterns worth taking seriously. None of these alone is definitive, but together they're a strong signal.
Verify, and report if something's off
A video call is one of the best tools for confirming someone is who they say they are — it's much harder to fake in real time. Verified profiles with ID or video verification are also a strong trust signal. If a profile seems suspicious, use the report tool right away rather than continuing to engage.
Frequently asked questions
What's the clearest sign of a scam profile?
Any request for money, gift cards, or financial information, especially before you've met in person. Legitimate connections don't ask for this.
What other tactics do scammers use?
Rushing intimacy and declarations of love very quickly, refusing video calls, and pushing to move the conversation off the platform right away are all common patterns.
How do I verify someone is who they say they are?
A video call is one of the best tools — it's much harder to fake in real time. Verified profiles with ID or video verification are also a strong signal.
What should I do if I spot a suspicious profile?
Use the report tool right away and don't engage further. Reporting helps protect the rest of the community as well as yourself.
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